Embracing an attitude of gratitude every day

If we are doing our best to listen attentively at Mass, there is typically a word or phrase that speaks to us in every homily. Recently, one of the phrases that has spoken to me is that we should live every day with an “attitude of gratitude.” 
A faithful steward is called to make an effort each and every day to appreciate God’s gifts, cultivate them, and share them joyfully and generously with a grateful heart. Writing this article was an excellent reminder for me personally to count my blessings. 
In the next few weeks, my oldest daughter is getting married, my oldest son is graduating from Auburn and my third child graduates from high school — not to mention the parties, events and planning that surround such momentous occasions. I know God doesn’t give us more than we can handle; but I certainly agree with St. Mother Teresa who so wisely said, “I just wish He didn’t trust me so much.” 
It is human to get weighed down with the tasks, stress and expenses that lead up to such events. I appreciate the reminder to have an “attitude of gratitude.” Having lost my mother at a young age, I am thankful for life and that I am here to celebrate sacraments and achievements with my children. I am also thankful that the fear of covid is behind us and we are able to enjoy large gatherings with our family and friends to celebrate together. Each of these milestones are blessings to celebrate and what a joy it is to watch our children spread their wings and share their gifts with the world.
While a wedding and graduations are important, Easter is the most important liturgical time for us as Catholics. Throughout this Easter season take notice of the many ways in which we thank God during Mass. In the Gloria and in our responses to the readings we give thanks to God. During the Eucharistic prayer we respond “It is right and just” to give thanks to the Lord our God. We are also reminded that Jesus gave thanks before breaking the bread at the last supper. After all the meaning of Eucharist is thanksgiving. Then the Mass is ended with a final sending of “Go in peace …” where we the faithful reply “Thanks be to God.” With God there are no coincidences. 
It is right and just to give the Lord thanks. God has blessed each of us in so many ways, let’s remember to embrace an attitude of gratitude in all that we do every day.   
“In all circumstances give thanks, for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus”— Thessalonians 5:18.
­­— Shannon Roh is the Executive Director of the Office of Development and Stewardship for the Archdiocese of Mobile.